{"id":26296,"date":"2020-10-07T18:32:37","date_gmt":"2020-10-07T22:32:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/?p=26296"},"modified":"2020-10-07T18:32:37","modified_gmt":"2020-10-07T22:32:37","slug":"note-from-a-mother-to-her-son-at-the-north-burial-ground-in-providence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/2020\/10\/07\/note-from-a-mother-to-her-son-at-the-north-burial-ground-in-providence.html","title":{"rendered":"Note From a Mother to Her Son, at the North Burial Ground in Providence"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I found this depressingly inspiring note at the <a href=\"https:\/\/sorabji.com\/cemeteries\/index\/category\/107-north_burial_ground_providence_rhode_island\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">North Burial Ground in Providence, Rhode Island<\/a>, in March, 2013. It&#8217;s sad as hell but the mother&#8217;s enthusiasm in keeping the boy alive, if only in memory, is beautiful. I love how she dots her Is. They look like sparklers. The North Burial Ground was, as I recall a mix of very old and very recent. The oldest sections echoed with the silence of being forgotten. The newer ones, such as where I found this note, resounded with the energy of memory. At first I thought the image was of the actual child that had died but it looks like a stock photo from Hallmark. The text matter printed on the first photo is continued from the second photo, which shows the front of the card.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_26297\" style=\"width: 586px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-26297\" data-attachment-id=\"26297\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/2020\/10\/07\/note-from-a-mother-to-her-son-at-the-north-burial-ground-in-providence.html\/north-burial-ground-letter-from-a-mother-to-her-dead-son-dsc06787\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/North-Burial-Ground-Letter-From-a-Mother-To-Her-Dead-Son-DSC06787-scaled.jpg?fit=1440%2C2560&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1440,2560\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" 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data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-26298\" data-attachment-id=\"26298\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/2020\/10\/07\/note-from-a-mother-to-her-son-at-the-north-burial-ground-in-providence.html\/north-burial-ground-letter-from-a-mother-to-her-dead-son-dsc06796\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/North-Burial-Ground-Letter-From-a-Mother-To-Her-Dead-Son-DSC06796-scaled.jpg?fit=1920%2C2560&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1920,2560\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" 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https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/North-Burial-Ground-Letter-From-a-Mother-To-Her-Dead-Son-DSC06796-scaled.jpg?resize=1536%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/North-Burial-Ground-Letter-From-a-Mother-To-Her-Dead-Son-DSC06796-scaled.jpg?resize=1080%2C1440&amp;ssl=1 1080w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/North-Burial-Ground-Letter-From-a-Mother-To-Her-Dead-Son-DSC06796-scaled.jpg?w=1920&amp;ssl=1 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-26298\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">North Burial Ground Letter From a Mother To Her Dead Son<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I found this depressingly inspiring note at the North Burial Ground in Providence, Rhode Island, in March, 2013. It&#8217;s sad as hell but the mother&#8217;s enthusiasm in keeping the boy alive, if only in memory, is beautiful. I love how she dots her Is. They look like sparklers. The North Burial Ground was, as I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":26297,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[2,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26296","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-181-2","category-calvary-stories","et-has-post-format-content","et_post_format-et-post-format-standard"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/North-Burial-Ground-Letter-From-a-Mother-To-Her-Dead-Son-DSC06787-scaled.jpg?fit=1440%2C2560&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paumAn-6Q8","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26296","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26296"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26296\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26299,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26296\/revisions\/26299"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26297"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26296"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26296"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26296"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}