{"id":28222,"date":"2021-05-18T21:01:48","date_gmt":"2021-05-19T01:01:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/?p=28222"},"modified":"2021-05-18T21:01:48","modified_gmt":"2021-05-19T01:01:48","slug":"we-had-mutual-friends-i-cannot-remember-who","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/2021\/05\/18\/we-had-mutual-friends-i-cannot-remember-who.html","title":{"rendered":"We Had Mutual Friends. I Cannot Remember Who."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Took me way longer than it should have to remember who this archived text message was from.<br \/>\n<strong><em><br \/>\n&#8220;Thx again for a nice time:). Maybe when we are less under influence, we can continue working on some music together. That was REALLY fun. I left my necklace in your bedroom on the nightstand next to &#8220;your side of the bed&#8221;:). Don&#8217;t lose it. You can give it to me next time we run into each other. And don&#8217;t let any other &#8220;friends with benefits&#8221; use my toothbrush:).&#8221; <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Rummaging through my RAID like it was still early quarantine. The skies clear. Then I find this.<\/p>\n<p>Confused by this because it&#8217;s from a time when I was still in love with someone else, and treating the &#8220;friends with benefits&#8221; thing as kind of a mid-40s &#8220;Sex and the City&#8221; joke.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Took me way longer than it should have to remember who this archived text message was from. &#8220;Thx again for a nice time:). Maybe when we are less under influence, we can continue working on some music together. That was REALLY fun. I left my necklace in your bedroom on the nightstand next to &#8220;your [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28222","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-181-2","et-doesnt-have-format-content","et_post_format-et-post-format-standard"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paumAn-7lc","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28222","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28222"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28222\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28223,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28222\/revisions\/28223"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28222"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28222"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28222"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}