{"id":34911,"date":"2024-02-12T08:28:45","date_gmt":"2024-02-12T13:28:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/2024\/02\/12\/6-6-and-6.html"},"modified":"2024-02-12T08:30:07","modified_gmt":"2024-02-12T13:30:07","slug":"6-6-and-6","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/2024\/02\/12\/6-6-and-6.html","title":{"rendered":"6, 6, and 6"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I read yesterday that dating sites and apps have ruined sexuality for a majority of men. I believe it. THe 6, 6, and 6 rules says that the only men getting anywhere on those apps are 6 feet tall and muscularly handsome, have a 6-figure income, and are at last 6 inches in the clutch. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I will never be the first 6 but I have made it to the second tier in my illustrious corporate past. I&#8217;m not at 6-figures presently but I don&#8217;t see why I can&#8217;t get there again. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What surprised me about the article was not these superficial qualities women end up settling for in the men they meet online. The article added that fewer than 20% of men are endowed with 6 inches or more. Is that even true? Despite not being 6 feet tall I guess that still made me quite the catch when I at least satisfied two of the 6, 6, and 6 criteria. Today, without a respectable level of income, I don&#8217;t think meeting just one of the criteria will get me far on dating apps. I&#8217;ve had a few brushes with interesting women but in retrospect felt like desperation had kicked in for them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But I believe all the negative things said about dating apps. Statistically they make connections virtually impossible for the majority of people who invest their time with that stuff. I still do but it&#8217;s largely out of boredom and, dare I say, a mild strain of desperation. I have real world prospects at present but nothing is guaranteed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I walked a long way yesterday. from 30th street to 92nd street and back. I found an unexpected telephone EXchange name right in plain sight, on a piece of road I&#8217;ve been on a number of times, not an abundant number of times but enough to make me ask how I missed seeing this HIckory or HInkley exchange right there on Astoria Boulevard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"452\" height=\"364\" data-attachment-id=\"34912\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/2024\/02\/12\/6-6-and-6.html\/image_editor_output_image-1479892166-17077445566699058958551869667303\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/image_editor_output_image-1479892166-17077445566699058958551869667303.jpg?fit=452%2C364&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"452,364\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"image_editor_output_image-1479892166-17077445566699058958551869667303\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/image_editor_output_image-1479892166-17077445566699058958551869667303.jpg?fit=452%2C364&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/image_editor_output_image-1479892166-17077445566699058958551869667303.jpg?resize=452%2C364&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-34912\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/image_editor_output_image-1479892166-17077445566699058958551869667303.jpg?w=452&amp;ssl=1 452w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/image_editor_output_image-1479892166-17077445566699058958551869667303.jpg?resize=300%2C242&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 452px) 100vw, 452px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It was a long, much-needed stramble up Astoria way. I had the option to sit at the desk and do more work on the dedserv but I chose instead to do that which I cannot typically do on a normal workday. Walk the walk. Be a fl\u00e2neur again. I felt fine and slept well to show for it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I was not expecting any Super Bowl in my Super Bowl Sunday but was surprised to find that Channel 2 actually comes in loud and clear to my television.I had the game on but no interest could be raised. I had in mind to look out for a friend who does commercials in LA. He moved there about 10 years ago and almost immediately hit it big with Geico and other name brands. Problem is I can barely recognize him compared to what he looks like in person. That&#8217;s not really a problem, I guess, just an observation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I didn&#8217;t knowingly witness his commercial, if it even aired. I turned off the TV not long into the first quarter. He is a friend from the old bar scene of yore, that scene which no longer exists save for occasional online group hugs and reminiscences when someone from there dies. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I read yesterday that dating sites and apps have ruined sexuality for a majority of men. I believe it. THe 6, 6, and 6 rules says that the only men getting anywhere on those apps are 6 feet tall and muscularly handsome, have a 6-figure income, and are at last 6 inches in the clutch. 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