{"id":5106,"date":"2016-02-21T17:42:13","date_gmt":"2016-02-21T22:42:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/?p=5106"},"modified":"2016-02-21T17:42:13","modified_gmt":"2016-02-21T22:42:13","slug":"getting-back-out","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/2016\/02\/21\/getting-back-out.html","title":{"rendered":"Getting back out"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t\t\t I took a crack at the Links that now line a portion of 3rd Avenue starting at 15th Street. Hate to say but I am not wholly impressed. Many of them are not yet functional, and for now at least I don&#8217;t have a problem with that. The rollout is expected to be gradual, and not-yet-working Links are clearly labeled with &#8220;coming soon&#8221; type language. It is the quantity of Links which appeared to be functional but that failed to work that bothers me. Meh, I&#8217;ll rant about it elsewhere. It was a nice long walk down and back up Third Avenue.<\/p>\n<p>The more thought-provoking development in my always stimulating existence is that I reactivated Facebook Friday, and am just about certain I will turn right around and deactivate again, maybe forever. I just need to sort a few things out. I would need to create a separate account from which I could manage the Payphone Project and My Receipts fan pages, and I might even dust off the stillborn Sorabji.com fan page for all 3 people who still remember this site exists. I also wante to contact a handful of people for whom I have no other means of contact. i already did that, and will give them a few days to either respond to or ignore me. <\/p>\n<p>I should not be surprised that virtually no one seems to have noticed I had exited Facebook. The first person to notice was an ex-gf who sent word out to a bunch of people from our mutual circle of friends &#8212; from whom a flurry of e-mails came to me several months ago. <\/p>\n<p>Facebook just looks and feels like a wasteland to me now. Some of this reflects circumstances that a polite gentleman such as myself does not discuss publicly. But really it&#8217;s just the fundamental idea of connecting with and staying connected with people in a way that is unique to our generation, and to which I&#8217;ve never fully adapted. I messaged a college roommate to say that I&#8217;d happened across sheet music for a trombone\/piano piece we played back in school. His 3-word reply indicated he had no idea I&#8217;d been away from Facebook, and would have made me feel a bit miffed save for the fact that I&#8217;m at a point in my life where the people I knew 25 years ago should be just that: the people I knew 25 years ago. This always-on pipeline of communication that makes reaching out to long-ago friends or even not so long-ago friends seem trivial has become more and more contrary to my basic human nature. it doesn&#8217;t even make sense, and while I admit to falling into the trap of exploiting these too-easy channels of communication, sometime to the detriment of healthy and normal relationships, I don&#8217;t think my failure to conform to my own ideals of communication mean that I cannot or should not do so going forward.<\/p>\n<p>I also think I might have reactivated without realizing it. That happened accidentally a couple of times, because they make it way too easy to reactivate without intending to. Twice this happened and I re-deactivated within a minute. If it happened a third time then I have no idea when or how. All I know is I had a shit ton of Notifications that should not have come through while deactivated.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not going to lose sleep over it. Just a curiosity.<\/p>\n<p>Slept righteously last night, suddenly waking up these days way before noon, which is kind of disorienting. The extra hour or so of daylight is also a disarming, if welcome development. <\/p>\n<p>It looked like somebody across the street died yesterday. There was a phalanx of police cars, an ambulance, a fire engine, and a small army of EMT personnel standing around doing nothing. I&#8217;ve seen this dance of death after people in the building where I live died. The firefighters solemnly climb the stairs to verify and\/or at least say that they attempted resuscitation. Traffic gets backed up, as there is no easy way around the oversized ambulance on a one-lane street. Horns start honking, usually from far enough back that the people doing so are ignorant to the circumstances. The drivers who are closest at hand politely complain, saying &#8220;I understand what&#8217;s going on but I just&#8230; bah!&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>One would think the EMT folks would factor in backed-up traffic into their response deployment planning but it does not seem like they do. In a way it doesn&#8217;t bother me. If I ever die I&#8217;d like to go out knowing that a small, impromptu parade of people driving vehicles gathered in my honor, blasting their car horns in a way that posterity would interpret as a celebration of my life.<\/p>\n<p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I took a crack at the Links that now line a portion of 3rd Avenue starting at 15th Street. Hate to say but I am not wholly impressed. Many of them are not yet functional, and for now at least I don&#8217;t have a problem with that. 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