{"id":5512,"date":"2016-06-03T16:03:44","date_gmt":"2016-06-03T21:03:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/?p=5512"},"modified":"2016-06-03T16:03:44","modified_gmt":"2016-06-03T21:03:44","slug":"dealbreakers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/2016\/06\/03\/dealbreakers.html","title":{"rendered":"Dealbreakers"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t\t\t That public space visit last night was interesting. Thinking of it now, it was comfortable, calm, and even pleasing. Wish I lived closer, or that similar public spaces existed around Astoria. Closest one would be the Citi Building, which isn&#8217;t so far, but it&#8217;s not so humanan environment as that former Sony space was last night.<\/p>\n<p>No human contact for me for the next several days, since popping that anxiety pill yesterday. Can&#8217;t drink for several days after taking those, and it&#8217;s fine with me this time, the monotony of vodka was getting to me. I don&#8217;t feel a sunbeam better today than i did yesterday since taking the pills. Sleep was impossible, BP was pretty high this a.m., but it will work itself out as it always does. <\/p>\n<p>At the ghetto coffee shop, where a mother is yelling at her young daughter to go pay the stuff she stole. hat kid is getting annoying. The therapist asked yesterday if I would date a woman who has kids. I was like &#8220;Sure. I like kids and kids like me, beause I talk to kids like they are adults and not, you know, little kids.&#8221; The therapist kind of beamed when I said this, saying most guys my age see kids as a dating dealbreaker. I knew a girl for a while who had a kid. He was cool. I took him to the Top of the Rock and a bunch of other places one day, and played a whole bunch of video games with him. I can undertand why it would be a dealbreaker for some guys, though. You don&#8217;t get the woman&#8217;s full attention when her kid is her #1 priority. I wouldn&#8217;t have a problem with that but I can understand how a dude of my or any age might.<\/p>\n<p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>That public space visit last night was interesting. Thinking of it now, it was comfortable, calm, and even pleasing. Wish I lived closer, or that similar public spaces existed around Astoria. Closest one would be the Citi Building, which isn&#8217;t so far, but it&#8217;s not so humanan environment as that former Sony space was last [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[29],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5512","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-text","et-doesnt-have-format-content","et_post_format-et-post-format-standard"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paumAn-1qU","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5512","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5512"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5512\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5512"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5512"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5512"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}