{"id":7517,"date":"2017-08-30T22:32:01","date_gmt":"2017-08-30T22:32:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/?p=7517"},"modified":"2017-08-30T22:32:01","modified_gmt":"2017-08-30T22:32:01","slug":"boundaries-from-article-at-catapult-co","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/2017\/08\/30\/boundaries-from-article-at-catapult-co.html","title":{"rendered":"Boundaries, from Article at Catapult.co"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t\t\t\u201cDo you want to be known for your writing, or for your swift email  responses?\u201d \u2013 article at Catapult.co <\/p>\n<blockquote><p> The truth is, I do need to cancel plans regularly. I need to disappear  for a few days or even months to attend to my writing. Friends or lovers  who resent this, who interpret it as a personal rejection, are often  angry with me. And feeling at a deficit makes me want to work harder  to make it up to them. In recent years, I\u2019ve learned the relief of  letting go of this debt. It is possible to do so with love. Being a good friend doesn\u2019t mean adhering to your friend\u2019s ideal of a good friend. It  means devising your own ideal, and then applying \t\t<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cDo you want to be known for your writing, or for your swift email responses?\u201d \u2013 article at Catapult.co The truth is, I do need to cancel plans regularly. I need to disappear for a few days or even months to attend to my writing. Friends or lovers who resent this, who interpret it as [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[29],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7517","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-text","et-doesnt-have-format-content","et_post_format-et-post-format-standard"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paumAn-1Xf","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7517","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7517"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7517\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7517"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7517"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wsbj.com\/sorabji\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7517"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}